Saturday, April 18, 2009
Pissed..

i was reading through a forum and i saw a post that makes me feel totally disgusted. The thread was as follows;

"I have been with my bf for 6 months. The difference is, he is a married man. we were a very happy and loving couple. We planned for marriage although he had to get over the divorce with his wife. He said that I changed him and he did so many stuff for me which he had never done to his wife. In his 10 years of relationship, he had hardly said "I Love you" to his gf-wife or anything mushy to her. With me, he did all these and much more. His friends saw what a changed person he is and how impossible their marriage is, stepped in and tried to persuade his wife to leave him. THey also failed.

Recently, my bf and I had sex. It was my first time. Yesterday, my bf finally confessed to me that he feels very guilty towards his wife after having sex with me. Yes, he had cheated on her by starting a relationship with me. But with sex involved, he felt that he had downright cheated and betrayed her. And the worse is, now he says he thinks he might have love for her still. he will still feel guilty towards his wife because of the things that she had done for him over these years. She didnt do anything wrong to warrant him to have extra marital affairs.

But if he still loves her, howcome he doesnt know if he will be happy when he returns to her? Whereas he can say that he will be happy if he is with me. I asked him if he is returning to his wife because of guilt feeling or if it is because of love, he couldnt answer me. He is just very sure that he loves me and wants to be with me. But not about his wife. I asked him if he returns to his wife because of the good things he has done, isnt it about responsibility and where is his own happiness? I kept asking him to choose the option that would bring him more happiness, even if it means letting me go. At the end of the day, I will hurt but I want him to be happy as well. "

Stupid woman using underhand tactics/means to pyscho a man to leave his wife eg asking whether he will be happy if he returns to his wife.

Firstly, i'm most disgusted by this sentence " I kept asking him to choose the option that would bring him more happiness, even if it means letting me go." Obviously, you know the man is more happier with you CURRENTLY and cant bear to leave you CURRENTLY, and you are indirectly asking him to choose you.. Acting sympathetic.. So please don't say something that makes urself seems so noble.. It's disgusting.. !! You are nothing but a marriage wrecker..

Secondly, WHAT HAS IT GOT TO DO WITH THE MAN'S FRIENDS????
How can you persuade the wife to leave the man.. It's their relationship and YOU have absolutely no rights and not in any status to step in..

Thirdly, an advice for this woman.. "What comes around, goes around" If the guy treat the wife like this today, you might be another 'Wife' in his list in the future.. And most impt, STUPPIIIDDD GUY...=)

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me; @ 10:34 AM

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me.. x *

A girl with low emotional intelligence... A girl who is satisfied with everything that she has now.. A girl who juz started her new job..

Wants

(1)to disturb him as usual..
(2)November BIG DAY =P (Aim Achieved)
(3)Stay happy always
(4) Slim down and Better Skin..
(5) To PASS my Driving Test in NOV..(Aim Achieved)
(6) To go Australia in June 2009.. (Aim Achieved)
(7) To go US in August 2010..

Footsteps - He walked into my life..

He influenced me a lot... If not him, i am not what i am today.. He lead me to the directions that i should head for..guiding and encouraging along the way

Friendzz

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Dawn

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