`together is the nicest place to be'

Saturday, April 18, 2009
Pissed..

i was reading through a forum and i saw a post that makes me feel totally disgusted. The thread was as follows;

"I have been with my bf for 6 months. The difference is, he is a married man. we were a very happy and loving couple. We planned for marriage although he had to get over the divorce with his wife. He said that I changed him and he did so many stuff for me which he had never done to his wife. In his 10 years of relationship, he had hardly said "I Love you" to his gf-wife or anything mushy to her. With me, he did all these and much more. His friends saw what a changed person he is and how impossible their marriage is, stepped in and tried to persuade his wife to leave him. THey also failed.

Recently, my bf and I had sex. It was my first time. Yesterday, my bf finally confessed to me that he feels very guilty towards his wife after having sex with me. Yes, he had cheated on her by starting a relationship with me. But with sex involved, he felt that he had downright cheated and betrayed her. And the worse is, now he says he thinks he might have love for her still. he will still feel guilty towards his wife because of the things that she had done for him over these years. She didnt do anything wrong to warrant him to have extra marital affairs.

But if he still loves her, howcome he doesnt know if he will be happy when he returns to her? Whereas he can say that he will be happy if he is with me. I asked him if he is returning to his wife because of guilt feeling or if it is because of love, he couldnt answer me. He is just very sure that he loves me and wants to be with me. But not about his wife. I asked him if he returns to his wife because of the good things he has done, isnt it about responsibility and where is his own happiness? I kept asking him to choose the option that would bring him more happiness, even if it means letting me go. At the end of the day, I will hurt but I want him to be happy as well. "

Stupid woman using underhand tactics/means to pyscho a man to leave his wife eg asking whether he will be happy if he returns to his wife.

Firstly, i'm most disgusted by this sentence " I kept asking him to choose the option that would bring him more happiness, even if it means letting me go." Obviously, you know the man is more happier with you CURRENTLY and cant bear to leave you CURRENTLY, and you are indirectly asking him to choose you.. Acting sympathetic.. So please don't say something that makes urself seems so noble.. It's disgusting.. !! You are nothing but a marriage wrecker..

Secondly, WHAT HAS IT GOT TO DO WITH THE MAN'S FRIENDS????
How can you persuade the wife to leave the man.. It's their relationship and YOU have absolutely no rights and not in any status to step in..

Thirdly, an advice for this woman.. "What comes around, goes around" If the guy treat the wife like this today, you might be another 'Wife' in his list in the future.. And most impt, STUPPIIIDDD GUY...=)

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me; @ 10:34 AM

Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Lao Da 31st Birthday..

Finally Finally... My lao da is back from Japan.. Has been waiting very long for this day to come..
We had a very simple dinner for his birthday at Greenwood Ave Fish Bistro recommended by Alicia.

As this is our first time there, lao da make use of his new toy (GPRS) to direct our journey there... Good for him.. LOL.. He would love to make use of this good chance to try out his toy.
Along the stretch of shophouses at Greenwood, there are also many restaurants, cafe and pubs.. Check up this place..=)

LAODA BDAY @ Green Wood Fish Bistro

Cripsy Soft shell crab... Love it..!!

HOT SEAFOOD PLATTER - consists of fried calamaris, lobsters, scallops,

mussels, king prawn, seasoned cuttlefish, fish brochettes. (S$79.90)

A small hill of seafood...

A small cosy restaurant.. Love the lamps...

He's always staring in the air....

SAy Cheesezzz..!!

Brought this cute candles at Liang Court... Pple read

it as "At Young Heart", when i find it quite obvious

is "Young AT Heart". (the arrangement pro??)

MY BELOVED BIRTHDAY BOY

With Laoda's mum...

Lao da's grandmum

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me; @ 11:50 PM

Sunday, April 5, 2009
Counting Down one day...

My car plate is done...

Satisfied...

Simple and nice... =)

But..I'm upset over why most restaurants are closed on monday.. My plan is spoilt..!!

Searching for a new plan.. Disappointed..

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me; @ 12:06 PM

Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Happy April Fool Day..

I've seems to forget about this April Fool Day until yuting text me to fool me this afternoon.. Keke April Fool Day used to be a 'popular' day when i'm young.. Everyone will think of something to trick their classmates the very next day in school.

I text Lao da and told him that i fell down and hurt myself. Hehehe not long after, he called me from Japan to see if i'm alright. And i told him "April Fool DAy".. Should have bluffed him further but i scare of the expensive phone bill, so i make it short & simple.. =)

Today i brought a sushi home... The egg looks huge and delicious and the cucumber is fresh.. The rice is chewy... And the sushi is well wrapped.. Pretty good..

But wait... Look again.. Hmm is it edible..?? It's HARD....

Keke... This is a new toy that i brought today... Very interesting...

It's actually a 2GB thumbdrive that looks like a real sushi if you never see the USB from the other side...

Haha look so cute when i plugged the thumb drive into my laptop..

A sushi sticking onto my laptop...

Kawaii..!!

Bringing it to work tmr.. I think my 'sushi' will catch all the attention tmr.. Attention-seeker sushi...

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me; @ 7:38 PM

* x Happiness is what you are bringing to me.. x *

Wants

Footsteps - He walked into my life..

Friendzz

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